Man Asked His Bride To Not Wear A White Wedding Dress As She Is Not A ‘Virgin’
One man recently confessed that he had fallen under the overwhelming influence and pressure of his traditional family. He asked his bride-to-be to give up wearing a white dress on their wedding day. He explained in a Reddit post:
“AITA for convincing my girlfriend NOT to wear a white dress on our wedding day?
So me (32M) and my soon to be wife (23F) are planing to get married in a few months. I come from a very religious house hold with strong Cristian beliefs and one of the traditions in my family is if the woman getting married isn’t still a virgin they shouldn’t wear a white dress on their wedding day.
My family knows my soon to be wife wasn’t a virgin when I met her because my mom asked me when I started dating her if she was pure, and I was honest and told her she had boyfriends before she met me.
My wife was really upset when I asked her if she could wear a coloured dress on our wedding day but she agreed, so we’re looking at getting glittery blue dress instead.
Now she’s saying she won’t marry me because she’s too humiliated by the whole situation, but I really don’t see how it’s a big deal. AITA?
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However, Reddit users were outraged when they learned that the groom was trying to track the bride’s outfit on the wedding day.
One Reddit user said it was better for the bride not to marry into this family. They commented, “The best case scenario here is that this woman doesn’t marry you. She can do better. Being single is better than being with a controlling guy who doesn’t care. your emotion.”
The user is saying that he first invaded her privacy by talking about her sex life with his mother. He then continued to adhere to his family’s orthodox beliefs and tried to oversee what the bride should wear on her wedding day.
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