There’s a huge difference between a man that’s totally loves you and one that’s not that into you. And of course, you deserve to be with someone who really loves you.
Luckily, there are some signs of a man who doesn’t love you even when he says he does. Dear ladies, it’s time you stop listening to what he says and starts listening to what he does.
1. He doesn’t keep in touch
If a man genuinely cares about you, he will want to keep in touch with you regularly. When he’s crazy about you and can’t do without you, it’s only logical that he calls regularly to know how you are faring and simply to hear you talk, because it means a lot to him.
2. He gives so many excuses
Does your man have an excuse for everything; an excuse for not calling, an excuse for not always being there, an excuse for not visiting and an excuse for everything bad he does? Well, you should know that a man who isn’t really into you would always have an excuse for everything rather than manning up.
3. He publicly flirts with other women
This is a no-brainer; a man can’t be into you and try to flirt with other women without minding your presence. This shows a lack of respect towards you and he knows that deep down, he’s not really into you.
4. He doesn’t make an effort to know much about you
When he is into you, your world would definitely fascinate him and he would want to know more and more about you. Yet, the same cannot be said about a man who isn’t into you; such a man doesn’t really care, so knowing much about you won’t really mean a lot to him.
5. He doesn’t want to spend his quality time with you
A man who values something would want to spend a lot of time with it. Imagine a man who loves his Play Station, he spends a lot of time on it, likewise a man who loves sports, movies and so many other things. It’s the same with his woman too; if he’s into you, he would try to spend quality time with you and if he isn’t into you, he would deem his time as more valuable than you.
6. You are not sure of his feelings
When a man isn’t into you, you aren’t sure of his feelings for you and the major reason you aren’t sure is because he doesn’t even show you that he cares — he probably tells you, but he doesn’t show you.
7. He’s not honest with you
A man who isn’t into you would be dishonest about many things, starting from his feelings. When he lies about little things and isn’t honest with his whereabouts and other things that matters then such a man isn’t that into you and you should stop believing him.
8. He is easily irritated when he’s with you
If your man easily puts up an irritated attitude when with you then he isn’t really into you even though he says so. When a man can’t really stand the presence of a woman he claims to love then he’s only there for what he can gain.
When a man shows these traits, make no mistake ladies, he doesn’t love you. Remember, it’s not just about what he says but what he does.
